“..this is an occasion for crowns.”
Be  attentive, my child, that you not judge any soul. For God permits the  one who judges his neighbor to fall, so that he learns to have sympathy  for his weak brother. The mercy of God supports all of us, but if we  become proud, God will remove His grace and we shall become worse than  the others.
 It  is one thing to condemn someone and another to be fought by thoughts of  condemnation. To condemn is a terrible passion, but to be fought by  such thoughts and to fight back —this is an occasion for crowns.
From the book
Councels from the Holy mountain